Hugs or kisses? Which one be your mumu button

 

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Author: Olaseeni, Juliet and Veektor

“I promise to never...” what makes you swallow the rest of your words? Hugs? or kisses? For some people, no matter the level of annoyance, a kiss is all it takes to defuse their “about to explode bomb”. This may be because of adrenalin released during kissing which increases their metabolic rate and reduces rational thinking. This is why, for such people, even when they want to retain their level of annoyance at lover boy/girl, they just can’t.

What about the warm embrace? Some people find it difficult to think straight when hugged by their lover. For such people, they can literally feel their annoyance melt away when hugged passionately by their lover and because of this, they find it impossible to still be annoyed at their lover and soon, they find themselves doing all the things they promised not to do.

Let’s keep in mind that it also depends on who is hugging or kissing you. If it is someone you are sexually inclined to, the way you’ll feel will be different from someone you are not sexually inclined to.

Before now, there have been untold stories about relationships that have constant fight because one of them doesn't get moved by kisses or that hugs are a waste of time.

Hold on, don't get me wrong I'm not saying that one is more important than the other. Some people just prefer one to the other, but they both leave us feeling the same way, that is after a passionate kiss or a deep hug, the chemical oxytocin is released.

When this hormone is released, the feeling of attachment and companionship is awaken, this is when your mumu button is activated.

So, a passionate kiss or a deep hug are like two sides of a coin, as for me, I prefer to keep the whole coin.

 

Are you like Tony whose mumu button is on kisses?

Or you are Laura who just wants to be held tightly?